Sunday, December 23, 2007

Bedside Manners by Christopher Wiseman


How little the dying seem to need–
Adrink perhaps,
a little food,

A smile, a hand to hold, medication, Achange of clothes,
an unspoken Understanding about what's happening.

You think it would be more, much more, Something more difficult for us To help with in this great disruption, But perhaps it's because as the huge shape Rears up higher and darker each hour.

They are anxious that we should see it too And try to show us with a hand-squeeze.

We panic to do more for them, And especially when it's your father, And his eyes are far away, and your tears Are all down your face and clothes, And he doesn't see them now, but smiles Perhaps, just perhaps because you're there.

How little he needs. Just love. More Love.


Bedside Manners Christopher Wiseman

Sunday, November 11, 2007

You Say Tomato, I say ToMAWto


It is far better to give than to receive. However, I ended up on the receiving end of a delicious Italian meal prepared with love and blessings. I was invited to attend with my husband and daughter - okay, so I was a guest, but it really motivated me to - VOLUNTEER.

St. Mary Magdalene Parish had a wonderful feast for all the volunteers at the church; ushers, lectors, those who help feed the poor - everyone.

Good food and fun was shared by all. I'm looking for a new church ministry. I'd love to hear about yours.

Dot

Tuesday, October 02, 2007

Mahalia Brought Me Back!

Good morning! God is Good ALL THE TIME.

After a long absence, I'm back. Brought back by the sounds of Mahalia Jackson. While working this morning I slipped my "Mahalia Jackson's Greatest Hits" CD into my computer. I love everything this woman has recorded, and the sounds of "Calvary," made me realize that I'm not too busy to blog and I'm not too busy to put my feelings into words and no matter how burdened I feel - "Jesus Died On Calvary," FOR ME and FOR YOU, which means that I need to take this time each day to remind myself of the goodness of the Lord!

Have a blessed day!

Love you,

Mocha Dot

Sunday, August 19, 2007

Let Us Break Bread Together On Our Knees

It's a beautiful, sunny California morning. Tomorrow is the first day of school. It seems as if summer just began.

Thank you, Lord, for another glorious day!

In Jesus Name,
Amen

Saturday, August 04, 2007

May Peace Ring In Our Hearts

I was shocked and saddened this week by the news that Oakland, California journalist, Chauncey Bailey, was slain in broad open daylight in downtown Oakland. The theory is that he was killed in retaliation for a story he was about to print. What kind of world do we live in when people are subject to be assasinated on their morning commute in front of onlookers, and apparently, even preschool children who were on their way to class. And what does it really mean to say "stop the madness?" It becomes rhetorical since the madness doesn't stop.

So, I ask for prayer for the family of Mr. Bailey, the community of Oakland and the world at large. Whatever happened to the First Amendment, Freedom of Speech and Freedom of the Press?

Saturday, July 21, 2007

Tammy Faye Dies At Age 65


Tonight, I'm asking for a special prayer for Tammy Faye Messner (former wife of ex-PTL leader Jim Baker) who died Friday night at age 65 after a long battle with cancer.

I'm told by friends that she appeared on "Larry King Live" as recently as last Thursday night. While she was in failing health, she was at peace with dying and was faithful until the end. News reports say that she died Friday and a private family service was held today.

No matter what you thought of Jim Baker, the "PTL" (Praise the Lord) ministry or Tammy Faye, you have to give her credit for praising God in her way and always professing her love for the Lord with her mouth. She may have been what some might call "over the top," but she lived life to the fullest and I truly believe she is in God's loving care. While I always doubted the sincerity of Jim Baker, I truly never for a moment doubted that Tammy loved the Lord.

God bless her family, friends and fans throughout the world.

Sunday, July 15, 2007

God's Beauty Is Everywhere


As I abruptly pulled over to the curb a few blocks from my home, my daughter said, "Mom, what are you stopping for??" I said, "I want to take a picture." She said, "What picture??" And I replied, "the beautiful patch of flowers." She said, "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?"

I explained that while she might just see a few flowers in a bed of brown uncut grass, what I saw was beauty in a most unexpected place.


My middle-aged mind saw what she didn't see and that was -- a) I woke up that morning in my right mind (well, sort of) and b) I must find pleasure whenever and wherever I can get it. . .including a patch of lovely flowers in a bed of brown grass on my morning commute!

God's Beauty Is Everywhere.

Saturday, July 14, 2007

Give Us This Day Our Daily Bread

Mom went to the doctor yesterday and she's down to 96 pounds. . .the good news is that she woke up this morning and so did I - thank God for another glorious day.

My daughter says we need to fatten Mama up so she's making homemade rolls today. Remember the old Pillsbury jingle? "Nothing says loving like something from the oven."

Thank you Lord for this beautiful morning, guide us and keep us as we go about our weekend tasks and watch over us and our friends and families.

Love,

Dot

Thursday, July 12, 2007

Megan Dickey Went Home To Be With The Lord

Last night, Miss Megan Dickey went home to be with the Lord. Please keep her family and friends in your prayers and special intentions.

"For God so loved the world that he gave his begotten son, and that whosoever believe in him shall not perish, but have everlasting life."

Thursday, July 05, 2007

SPECIAL PRAYER REQUEST FOR MEGAN DICKEY


Prayer request from Mercelle - she is asking all faithful prayer warriors to say a special prayer for Miss Megan Dickey.

She's a Colorado teenager who is battling serious illness. She is resting comfortably and spending time with her family.

Lord Jesus - we are praying for a miracle - and we know that you are the miracle worker. . .

"Hail Mary, full of Grace, the Lord is With Thee - Blessed Art Thou Amongst Women and Blessed Is the Fruit of Thy Womb Jesus. . ."

In Jesus Holy Name,

Amen

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

In Memory of My Daddy


My Dad died on July 4, 1996 - Independence Day. I like to think that it was the day the Lord took away Daddy's pain and suffering and set him free so that he might have eternal life. He was a wonderful man, a big man, a kind man, a gracious man and a humble human being. Even though it has been 11 years - it seems like yesterday.

When I took this picture of the Koi Fish Pond at The Embassy Suites, I thought how Daddy would have appreciated the beauty of this simple pond of Koi. . .I thank God that I had such a wonderful father and ask you to pray for me today that I might get through the day knowing that he is in a better place.

Peace and Blessings,

Dot

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Tilden Park Murder Suicide In Berkeley


The news today reported the death of an entire family of four - apparently the Dad, a 51 year old man from Berkeley, killed his two adorable little girls, ages 6 and 8, his 40 year old wife who apparently was a very gifted doctor and then turned the gun on himself. The suicide note referred to "financial woes" from their business. My heart aches for the family left behind and I can only imagine what those girls' last moments were like. . .please pray, pray and pray some more. . .Come Holy Spirit.

Dot

Sunday, June 17, 2007

Happy Father's Day


Sorry. . .I've been really bad about keeping up this blog. . .my mum is so sick and work is hectic and family takes time. . .but today is a special day for all fathers. I visited the cemetery to pay my respects to my Daddy who passed away nearly 11 years ago. I don't know where the time goes. . .I miss him like it was yesterday. I'm very grateful for the time we had together and that I was blessed with such a wonderful role model. So. . .go, DADS - today is your special day!

Friday, May 25, 2007

Bedside Manners by Christopher Wiseman

Poem: "Bedside Manners" by Christopher Wiseman from In John Updike's Room. ©

Bedside Manners


How little the dying seem to need—
A drink perhaps, a little food,
A smile, a hand to hold, medication,
A change of clothes, an unspoken
Understanding about what's happening.
You think it would be more, much more,
Something more difficult for us
To help with in this great disruption,
But perhaps it's because as the huge shape
Rears up higher and darker each hour
They are anxious that we should see it too
And try to show us with a hand-squeeze.

We panic to do more for them,
And especially when it's your father,
And his eyes are far away, and your tears
Are all down your face and clothes,
And he doesn't see them now, but smiles
Perhaps, just perhaps because you're there.
How little he needs. Just love. More Love.

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Yolanda King has passed away at age 51

Yolanda King has died of an apparent heart ailment - suddenly in Los Angeles. I am speechless.

Dear God: Please bless her soul and a special prayer for her family and friends and people like myself who did not know her personally but felt a deep connection with her.


As a child growing up in the '60s, I pride myself on being educated by the likes of Ebony and Jet magazine. This is truly a sad day.

Peace and God's Blessings,

Mocha Dot

Monday, April 30, 2007

A Prayer for Celeste


My dear friend, Celeste, lost her father yesterday. Suddenly he was taken from this earth and went home to be with his Heavenly Father.

A devoted husband, father and friend he will be missed by so many. However, his good deeds will never be forgotten and we know that he is resting in peace.

Many prayers and love to the family of Leonard Llorens.

Monday, April 23, 2007

This time it's personal

I have been too depressed to write on this blog lately due to my mom's illness. About a month ago, she was diagnosed with the big "C." While I am grateful that she has lived to a ripe old age - 82 years old, I am still very sad about the possibility of life without Mama. I keep thinking, "Mama is way too ornery to die," but I know that none of us are immortal.

I pray that she will open up her heart and trust God to guide her through her illness so that she may reap her reward on the other side.

Of course, I could go before she does but it's very hard to watch a loved one deteriorate.

I promise to get back to my blog real soon ;0

Sunday, April 08, 2007

He Is Risen

Happy Easter.

Wednesday, April 04, 2007

Two Horses (Author Anonymous - submitted by Esther)

Two Horses
Just up the road is a field, with two horses in it.

From a distance, each horse looks like any other horse. But if you
stop your car, or are walking by, you will notice something quite
amazing....

Looking into the eyes of one horse will disclose that he is blind. His
owner has chosen not to have him put down, but has made a good home for
him.

This alone is amazing.

If you stand nearby and listen, you will hear the sound of a bell.

Looking around for the source of the sound, you will see that it comes
from the smaller horse in the field.

Attached to the horse's halter is a small bell.

It lets the blind friend know where the other horse is, so he can
follow.

As you stand and watch these two friends, you'll see that the horse
with the bell is always checking on the blind horse, and that the blind
horse will listen for the bell and then slowly walk to where the other
horse is,

trusting that he will not be led astray.

When the horse with the bell returns to the shelter of the barn each
evening,

it stops occasionally and looks back,

making sure the blind friend isn't too far behind to hear the bell.

Like the owners of these two horses,

God does not throw us away just because we are not perfect

or because we have problems or challenges.

He watches over us and even brings others into our lives

to help us when we are in need.

Sometimes we are the blind horse being guided by the little ringing
bell of those who God places in our lives.

Other times we are the guide horse, helping others to find their
way....

Good friends are like that... you may not always see them, but you
know they are always there.

Please listen for my bell and I'll listen for yours.

And remember...

be kinder than necessary-

everyone you meet is fighting

some kind of battle.

Live a complaint-free life.

Live simply,
Love generously,
Care deeply,
Speak kindly....
Leave the rest to God

Saturday, March 31, 2007

Monday, March 26, 2007

Rest In Peace - Bishop Gilbert E. Patterson

Bishop G.E. Patterson

MEMPHIS, Tenn. (AP) - G.E. Patterson, the presiding bishop of the Church of God in Christ and a minister for almost 50 years, died of heart failure Tuesday, the church announced. He was 67.

The predominantly black Protestant denomination, headquartered in Memphis, claims 6 million members worldwide and traces its origins to the 1870s.

Patterson was hospitalized in January for an undisclosed illness and told his followers in 2005 that he had prostate cancer.

At the church's annual Holy Convocation in November, he said he had considered stepping down but changed his mind after an outpouring of support.

"If my body being afflicted can get us back to where God wants us to be, then I'm willing to suffer," said Patterson, who then received a standing ovation.

"It was a direct result of his work, such as his TV ministries, that allowed people to see COGIC as it should have been projected," said jurisdictional Bishop Jerry Maynard, the chief operating officer of the national church, who had worked with Patterson since 1992.

"Under his leadership we've seen tremendous strides toward true spirituality," said San Diego jurisdictional Bishop George D. McKinney, a member of the church's General Board.

Maynard said the church would begin selecting a successor after memorial services.

In January, he won the traditional male vocalist of the year honor for his "Singing the Old Time Way Volume 2" at the 22nd annual Stellar Gospel Music Awards.

He was born in Humboldt, Tenn., and was ordained as a church elder in 1957 in Detroit.

Patterson attended Lemoyne-Owen College in Memphis, Detroit Bible Institute and held an honorary doctorate from Oral Roberts University. He was the editor and publisher of the Bountiful Blessings Magazine, with a distribution list of more than 100,000 individuals.

In 2005, he told the church's annual convention in Memphis that believers should overcome differences of race and culture to spread their faith.

"I don't know why we ever got stuck on that thing that we're only supposed to witness to black folks," Patterson said. "Once you've received the word, spread it. God's not going to do something to bless your work until you do something to bless his work."

Copyright © 2007 The Associated Press

Saturday, March 24, 2007

FEET O' JESUS By Langston Hughes

At the feet o' Jesus,

Sorrow like a sea.

Lordy, let yo' mercy

Come driftin' down on me.

At the feet o' Jesus

At yo' feet I stand.

O, ma little Jesus,

Please reach out yo' hand.

Sunday, March 11, 2007

Prayer Meeting by LANGSTON HUGHES

PRAYER MEETING

Glory! Hallelujah!
The dawn's a-comin'!
The dawn's a-coming'!
A black old woman croons
In the amen-corner of the
Ebecaneezer Baptist Church
A black old woman crooons-
The dawn's a-comin'!

Tuesday, February 27, 2007

I'm in the 7 percent. . .

A holy man was having a conversation with the Lord
One day and said, "Lord, I would like to know what
Heaven and Hell are like. "

The Lord led the holy man to two doors. He opened
One of the doors and the holy man looked in.

In the
Middle of the room was a large round table. In the
Middle of the table was a large pot of stew which
Smelled delicious and made the holy man's mouth
Water.

The people sitting around the table were thin
And sickly. They appeared to be famished. They
Were holding spoons with very long handles that
Were strapped to their arms and each found it
Possible to reach into the pot of stew and take
a spoonful, but because the handle was longer than
Their arms, they could not get the spoons back into their
Mouths.

The holy man shuddered at the sight of
their
Misery and suffering The Lord said, "You have seen
Hell."

They went to the next room and opened the door. It
was
Exactly the same as the first one. There was the
large
Round table with the large pot of stew which made
the
Holy man's mouth water. The people were equipped
With the same long-handled spoons, but here the
people
Were well nourished and plump, laughing and
talking.
The
Holy man said, "I don't understand."

"It is simple" said the Lord,
"it requires but one skill.
You see, they have learned to feed each other,
while
The greedy think only of themselves." When Jesus
Died on the cross he was thinking of you! If you
are
One of the 7% who will stand up for him, forward
This with the title "7%".
93% of people won't forward this.

I'm in the 7%.

Monday, February 19, 2007

Happy Presidents' Day


Please pray for wisdom and divine intervention for the leaders of our country and pray for all the men and women who are currently in combat.

Wednesday, February 07, 2007

Stop And Smell The Lavender


Today, I had a follow up appointment to my mammogram. The film had shown a "shadow." As I endured the 90 minute testing, I overheard things like "They saw the lump on my mammogram," and "Don't worry until you have something to worry about." The woman who had the lump was waiting patiently for her ultrasound, reading a Fitness magazine and looked so very calm. I, on the other hand, was a wreck. The results were fine. However, one of the many things I promised myself I'd do, while I prayed for a positive outcome, was pay more attention to the things I enjoy. One of those things is the lavender I planted three years ago which takes on a life of its own.

And with that I say to thee - "Stop and Smell The Lavender."

Monday, February 05, 2007

In Memory of Caroline


My friend Caroline passed away this morning after a valiant battle with cancer. No more suffering. She is now safe in God's loving arms. I thank God for having known her in this life. I am sad that I will no longer see her in this world.

Monday, January 22, 2007

Top Pot Donuts Are Da Bomb!!

I am so excited to announce that I was invited to try out the new donuts being offered at Starbucks. Well. . .I've been in search of the perfect donut for 30 years and imagine my surprise when I found out about these babies. They're made by Top Pot Donuts based in Washington state and they have a history of their own. Check out the web site. These little morsels are now available at your local Starbucks.

Sometimes happiness comes in a round package with a hole in the middle ;0

http://www.toppotdoughnuts.com/

Sunday, January 21, 2007

January 21 - Feast Day

Saint Agnes

Feast Day: January 21
Symbol:young woman bearing a palm leaf or sword and holding a lamb

Agnes, is one of the four great virgin martyrs of the Christian Church and died for her faith in the early fourth century. St. Agnes, chose not to marry and was prepared to die for the sake of her faith and her virginity as "the bride of Christ", rather than become the wife of the son of a Roman prefect.

Saturday, January 20, 2007

Maya Angelou - this day in 1993

Read her poem "On The Pulse Of Morning" at President Bill Clinton's Inaguration

A Rock, A River, A Tree
Hosts to species long since departed,
Marked the mastodon.
The dinosaur, who left dry tokens
Of their sojourn here
On our planet floor,
Any broad alarm of their hastening doom
Is lost in the gloom of dust and ages.

But today, the Rock cries out to us, clearly, forcefully,
Come, you may stand upon my
Back and face your distant destiny,
But seek no haven in my shadow.

I will give you no more hiding place down here.

You, created only a little lower than
The angels, have crouched too long in
The bruising darkness,
Have lain too long
Face down in ignorance.

Your mouths spilling words
Armed for slaughter.

The Rock cries out today, you may stand on me,
But do not hide your face.

Across the wall of the world,
A River sings a beautiful song,
Come rest here by my side.

Each of you a bordered country,
Delicate and strangely made proud,
Yet thrusting perpetually under siege.

Your armed struggles for profit
Have left collars of waste upon
My shore, currents of debris upon my breast.

Yet, today I call you to my riverside,
If you will study war no more. Come,

Clad in peace and I will sing the songs
The Creator gave to me when I and the
Tree and the stone were one.

Before cynicism was a bloody sear across your
Brow and when you yet knew you still
Knew nothing.

The River sings and sings on.

There is a true yearning to respond to
The singing River and the wise Rock.

So say the Asian, the Hispanic, the Jew
The African and Native American, the Sioux,
The Catholic, the Muslim, the French, the Greek
The Irish, the Rabbi, the Priest, the Sheikh,
The Gay, the Straight, the Preacher,
The privileged, the homeless, the Teacher.
They hear. They all hear
The speaking of the Tree.

Today, the first and last of every Tree
Speaks to humankind. Come to me, here beside the River.

Plant yourself beside me, here beside the River.

Each of you, descendant of some passed
On traveller, has been paid for.

You, who gave me my first name, you
Pawnee, Apache and Seneca, you
Cherokee Nation, who rested with me, then
Forced on bloody feet, left me to the employment of
Other seekers--desperate for gain,
Starving for gold.

You, the Turk, the Swede, the German, the Scot ...
You the Ashanti, the Yoruba, the Kru, bought
Sold, stolen, arriving on a nightmare
Praying for a dream.

Here, root yourselves beside me.

I am the Tree planted by the River,
Which will not be moved.

I, the Rock, I the River, I the Tree
I am yours--your Passages have been paid.

Lift up your faces, you have a piercing need
For this bright morning dawning for you.

History, despite its wrenching pain,
Cannot be unlived, and if faced
With courage, need not be lived again.

Lift up your eyes upon
The day breaking for you.

Give birth again
To the dream.

Women, children, men,
Take it into the palms of your hands.

Mold it into the shape of your most
Private need. Sculpt it into
The image of your most public self.
Lift up your hearts
Each new hour holds new chances
For new beginnings.

Do not be wedded forever
To fear, yoked eternally
To brutishness.

The horizon leans forward,
Offering you space to place new steps of change.
Here, on the pulse of this fine day
You may have the courage
To look up and out upon me, the
Rock, the River, the Tree, your country.

No less to Midas than the mendicant.

No less to you now than the mastodon then.

Here on the pulse of this new day
You may have the grace to look up and out
And into your sister's eyes, into
Your brother's face, your country
And say simply
Very simply
With hope
Good morning.
(By Maya Angelou)

Wednesday, January 17, 2007

Speak Your Mind

"Even If Your Voice Shakes."

- Maggie Kuhn, Founder Grey Panthers

Monday, January 15, 2007

Happy Birthday Dr. Martin Luther King!

Happy Birthday to You!!!

"A nation that continues year after year to spend more money on military defense than on programs of social uplift is approaching spiritual death."

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Prayer for A Dying Friend

What does it mean when we hear that a friend or loved one is dying? For me, I think that we are all dying - with every breath we take - tomorrow, the next hour - the next minute is not promised to us. However, today I am reflecting on and praying for my friend - we'll call her "Kate." Kate is lying in a hospital bed as I write this, in constant pain, yet fighting to live.

My friend, Judith, died in 2006. A couple of months before she died, she shared the following poem with me:

Another Dimension

Bedside Manners
Christopher Wiseman

How little the dying seem to need—
A drink perhaps, a little food,
A smile, a hand to hold, medication,
A change of clothes, an unspoken
Understanding about what's happening.
You think it would be more, much more,
Something more difficult for us
To help with in this great disruption,
But perhaps it's because as the huge shape
Rears up higher and darker each hour
They are anxious that we should see it too
And try to show us with a hand-squeeze.

We panic to do more for them,
And especially when it's your father,
And his eyes are far away, and your tears
Are all down your face and clothes,
And he doesn't see them now, but smiles
Perhaps, just perhaps because you're there.
How little he needs. Just love. More Love.

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Let It Go - by Bishop TD Jakes

Let It Go For 2007...
By T. D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk
away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into
staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to
see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The Bible said that, They came out from us
that it might be made manifest that they were not for
us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have
continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just
means that their part in the story is over. And you've got
to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep
trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you
something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I
believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm
faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

LET THEM GO!!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong
to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ...

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth ...

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction ...

LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take
you to a new level in Him ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try
to help themselves ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed ...

LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself
and God is saying "take your hands off of it,"
then you need to ...

LET IT GO!!!


Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2007!!!

LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left
think about it, and then ...
LET IT GO!!!

"The Battle is the Lord's!"

Friday, January 05, 2007

National Black Catholic Congress

Here is a good link for African American Catholics and others who are interested. . .

http://www.nbccongress.org/default.asp

Wednesday, January 03, 2007

January 3, 1956 - CME

Colored Methodist Church, established in 1870, officially changed its name to Christian Methodist Episcopal Church on January 3, 1956.

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

Be Not Overcome By Evil,

But Overcome Evil With Good.

St. Paul